#1 2010-09-22 00:53:30
I've recently met a beautiful, educated, kinky woman. After our first make out session, she revealed that she contracted genital herpes 20+ years ago. I've done the reading, and it appears, if I'm careful, I have a good chance of a longterm relationship without contracting the disease.
Has anyone here been in a similar relationship?
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#2 2010-09-22 01:00:10
Use a rubber.
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#3 2010-09-22 01:00:25
And dental dam.
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#4 2010-09-22 01:14:31
On the other hand, I have five fingers. And the liquid nitrogen that'll remove those worts won't hurt a bit once your dick grows back.
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#6 2010-09-22 01:37:03
Who's Dick Hertz?
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#7 2010-09-22 01:40:17
As long as her herpes isn't active, you'll be perfectly safe..... heh heh heh
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#8 2010-09-22 02:15:25
Is she taking meds to control it or does she use them only when it becomes active?
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#9 2010-09-22 02:18:02
Does it affect the Anal approach?
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#10 2010-09-22 02:20:20
There is nothing banal about anal....
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#11 2010-09-22 06:31:52
I’ll bite. I’ve dated the herpes chicks and never had an outbreak. However last week I was sweating over a weird lesion until I figured out it was jock itch.
Odds are you’ve been exposed to it already if you’ve had unprotected sex with a good number of experienced partners. Some people get it, and have outbreaks of sores. However others get it, never have outbreaks, but still shed virus. Also there are probably some people who get it, and don’t shed virus, And there are some people who get exposed to it, and never get it. It’s your mate’s viral load vs. your surface area and immune system. What’s your history? Have you ever had oral herpes or been hogging? Are you circumcised?
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#13 2010-09-22 15:09:56
Herpes, smerpes! The real question is, "Can she make soap suds come out of her pus?" If so, run like hell.
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#14 2010-09-23 00:04:31
Thanks for the all the replies, especially the hilarious ones.
This was pointless.
I already knew the risks and strategies to avoid them.
She's fascinating. She's crazy. She's sexy. But still... I think I'd rather just fuck other women and assume I'm OK.
Go denial.
I'll probably break out the saran wrap and condoms nevertheless and see if I can do this. Yeah, I'm pretty fucking squeamish.
phoQ-- I was in a relationship (my and her first) for almost 20 years until 2 years ago. Since then, maybe 10 partners of one-night-stand to 7 months. Circumcised. No hogging. Can't keep it up for the fat chicks, though I have tried (they do give good head though).
Got no idea about meds Taint, though I will ask.
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#15 2010-09-23 01:57:09
Look into meds, and don't fool around if anything crazy is going on. It may be useful to figure out if she gets sick from it a lot, or never, or what. As always: Wrap it before you tap it, and don't fuck anything you can't lift.
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#16 2010-09-23 02:42:19
DupeOrNot wrote:
Since then, maybe 10 partners of one-night-stand to 7 months. Circumcised.
Did you use protection for all those times, and have you ever had cold sores? Circumcision may be beneficial, but you should probably post a picture of your penis.
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#17 2010-09-23 07:34:48
DupeOrNot wrote:
This was pointless.
Undoubtedly, and that's the point. Perhaps you should join the foreign lesion.
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#18 2010-09-23 19:24:22
I used a condom for most of the one night stands. no condom for the long term relationship-- she's had 40ish partners, so yeah, I've probably been exposed. I've never had a cold sore.
Here ya go phoQ-- see anything suspicious?
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#19 2010-09-23 19:42:11
Dick instead of tits.
Go away.
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#20 2010-09-23 19:47:23
The blue plastic handle is a bit suspicious, you'd better post a picture of the vagina in question just to be safe.
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#21 2010-09-23 19:59:31
Are you requesting a shot of my tits Tripps?
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#22 2010-09-23 20:50:52
DupeOrNot wrote:
Are you requesting a shot of my tits Tripps?
Only if it is not connected to a dick.
Problem?
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#23 2010-09-23 23:15:29
Um... well OK then!
Problem solved. She is no longer interested in me because I am reluctant to contract herpes from her.
Thank you High Street!
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#24 2010-09-24 05:36:19
MSG Tripps wrote:
Dick instead of tits.
Go away.
So more dicks then?
Hey el Dupe, don’t listen him. I’m sure others would agree that you can post your dick, tits, or butthole anytime, maybe even with a written message to High-Street.
Dude, I have my red wings with herpes chicks and I’ve never chancred. There is some soil where herpes will not take root and my evidence is not just anecdotal. I’m not saying that’s you, but if you’ve never even had a cold sore, and you’re in your 40s, you may be immune. So with just a rubber you can make sweet love to this fascinating, crazy, sexy woman without fear. There are so few compatible people out there to get hung up on microbial minutiae.
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#25 2010-09-24 09:18:18
Alright, I want to posit a question from a thread on another board I am on and watch the personalities here duke it out. I also need someone to contact Dirckman and get his response because that one would fascinate me to no end.
If you met someone and had a really great time with them and enjoyed their company enough to hop in the sack with them would you regret that experience if sometime later you found out they were not genetically the sex you thought them to be?
The original question posited that the person in question was a post-op MTF transsexual but I left it open ended for the faigles. Not that you poofs as a cultural group have shown a tendency towards pickiness.
So, how would you feel, how would you handle it, what would be the repercussions in your life?
Oh, and RT, I need RT to answer the question if one of her strapping foreigners turned out to be a former chick that now has a dick.
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#26 2010-09-24 11:49:56
DupeOrNot wrote:
Can't keep it up for the fat chicks, though I have tried (they do give good head though).
I would be willing to take the fat chicks off your hands.
I'll also bang the diseased whore if you don't want to.
Let me know.
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#27 2010-09-24 19:42:38
Scotty wrote:
If you met someone and had a really great time with them and enjoyed their company enough to hop in the sack with them would you regret that experience if sometime later you found out they were not genetically the sex you thought them to be?
Hells, no. Why the fuck would I ever regret a good time?
Squeamishness is for...uh, the squeamish.
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#28 2010-09-24 19:57:28
Scotty wrote:
If you met someone and had a really great time with them and enjoyed their company enough to hop in the sack with them would you regret that experience if sometime later you found out they were not genetically the sex you thought them to be?
The original question posited that the person in question was a post-op MTF transsexual but I left it open ended for the faigles. Not that you poofs as a cultural group have shown a tendency towards pickiness.
So, how would you feel, how would you handle it, what would be the repercussions in your life?
I like to let my vagina do the thinkin'.
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#29 2010-09-26 15:22:34
Scotty wrote:
If you met someone and had a really great time with them and enjoyed their company enough to hop in the sack with them would you regret that experience if sometime later you found out they were not genetically the sex you thought them to be?
You mean you shagged them rotten, then found out that the equipment you enjoyed was a dealer-add-on, not a factory option? Or something discovered upon sliding between the sheets?
I guess in either case it all depends on how good they are at giving head.
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#30 2010-09-26 17:14:22
GooberMcNutly wrote:
I guess in either case it all depends on how good they are at giving head.
I'm with Goob, if they think they are a chick and have all the working bits who cares what they used to be as long as they give good head.
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#31 2010-09-26 17:23:37
So you guys would let a dude suck your dick.
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#32 2010-09-26 18:34:40
Bigcat wrote:
So you guys would let a dude suck your dick.
Dude's have balls, chicks have cunts; if it has a cunt it can suck my dick, if it has balls it can go suck its own goddamned dick.
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#33 2010-09-26 19:26:19
Bigcat wrote:
So you guys would let a dude suck your dick.
Anyone who really wants to suck my dick is a good person.
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#34 2010-09-26 19:35:41
Tall Paul wrote:
Anyone who really wants to suck my dick is a good person.
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#35 2010-09-27 06:16:34
If the tranny in question were butch enough for me not to find out until after the fact that it was once female, no I would not freak out. Buck Angel is a turn off, both as a person and in terms of equipment. On the other hand, I remember seeing an interview with a very hot "man" who was pissing and moaning about how he was no longer accepted in the lesbian community. It must not have occurred to him that lesbians would be repelled by his dick, beard, chest hair, and huge muscles. Had he been into dudes, I would have gone for it.
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#36 2010-09-27 10:02:31
Emmeran wrote:
Tall Paul wrote:
Anyone who really wants to suck my dick is a good person.
https://cruelery.com/uploads/11_lightswitch.jpg
https://cruelery.com/uploads/11_flip_of_the_switch.jpg
Are you calling me double pole/double throw?
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#37 2010-09-27 11:36:37
Tall Paul wrote:
Are you calling me double pole/double throw?
SPDT.
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#38 2010-09-27 16:17:22
Emmeran wrote:
Bigcat wrote:
So you guys would let a dude suck your dick.
Dude's have balls, chicks have cunts; if it has a cunt it can suck my dick, if it has balls it can go suck its own goddamned dick.
So, if some dude, say, Karl Rove mabey, cut his twig and berries off, you would let him suck your dick?
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#39 2010-09-27 18:12:34
Bigcat wrote:
Emmeran wrote:
Bigcat wrote:
So you guys would let a dude suck your dick.
Dude's have balls, chicks have cunts; if it has a cunt it can suck my dick, if it has balls it can go suck its own goddamned dick.
So, if some dude, say, Karl Rove mabey, cut his twig and berries off, you would let him suck your dick?
Can't say for sure, would have to see what she looked like after the surgeons finished - but that's just the old/fat/ugly thing at work.
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#40 2010-09-27 18:40:17
Bigcat wrote:
So, if some dude, say, Karl Rove mabey, cut his twig and berries off, you would let him suck your dick?
I would need some financial incentive.
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#41 2010-09-27 19:33:13
GooberMcNutly wrote:
Tall Paul wrote:
Are you calling me double pole/double throw?
SPDT.
I never said I would let just anyone suck my dick, only that willingness was indicative of
goodness. I am definitely an SPST kind of guy, not that there's anything wrong with DPST.
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#42 2010-09-27 19:40:14
Bigcat wrote:
Emmeran wrote:
Bigcat wrote:
So you guys would let a dude suck your dick.
Dude's have balls, chicks have cunts; if it has a cunt it can suck my dick, if it has balls it can go suck its own goddamned dick.
So, if some dude, say, Karl Rove mabey, cut his twig and berries off, you would let him suck your dick?
He can suck my dick right now, and I don't even have one.
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#43 2010-09-27 20:31:45
Tall Paul wrote:
GooberMcNutly wrote:
Tall Paul wrote:
Are you calling me double pole/double throw?
SPDT.
I never said I would let just anyone suck my dick, only that willingness was an indicative of a goodness. I am definitely an SPST kind of guy, not that there's anything wrong with DPST.
SPDT. Goober already done told you once.
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#44 2010-09-28 00:52:48
blame: George Orr
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#45 2010-09-28 02:11:23
Sex is overrated. A casual blowjob, from man or woman, is a pitiful thing, a "sneeze of the genitals", compared to simply holding hands with someone you're in love with.
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#46 2010-09-28 02:28:22
sigmoid freud wrote:
Sex is overrated. A casual blowjob, from man or woman, is a pitiful thing, a "sneeze of the genitals", compared to simply holding hands with someone you're in love with.
I hope you have some truly great sex some day.
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#47 2010-09-28 02:47:13
Taint wrote:
sigmoid freud wrote:
Sex is overrated. A casual blowjob, from man or woman, is a pitiful thing, a "sneeze of the genitals", compared to simply holding hands with someone you're in love with.
I hope you have some truly great sex some day.
Thanks for the thought. Maybe there'll be peace in Israel/Palestine, too.
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#48 2010-09-28 07:03:57
taffy wrote:
Bigcat wrote:
Emmeran wrote:
Dude's have balls, chicks have cunts; if it has a cunt it can suck my dick, if it has balls it can go suck its own goddamned dick.So, if some dude, say, Karl Rove mabey, cut his twig and berries off, you would let him suck your dick?
He can suck my dick right now, and I don't even have one.
HA! Good one.
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#49 2010-09-28 09:51:44
sigmoid freud wrote:
Sex is overrated. A casual blowjob, from man or woman, is a pitiful thing, a "sneeze of the genitals", compared to simply holding hands with someone you're in love with.
You should try holding hands with someone you truly love WHILE getting a blowjob from a stranger (Or Karl Rove, though I never could get the whole bald==sexy thing...)
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